An Open letter to Men’s Rights Activists!

Dear MRAs,

In cultural terms; You have failed women. Now I know that the typical MRA response to that is going to be we do not care. After all you are a MEN’s group .. your aim is not to please women. But guess what? The sexes do not live in isolation. Admit first that one of the reasons you as a male initially did not like feminism was because feminism represents women’s failure to work together with men, to understand what men are going through and to work together with them to find social solutions. Feminism is selfish and SO ARE YOU!

MRAs you are a huge disappointment to me. I know it is not your fault and that women started this battle but I looked up to men before knowing about you all. I thought men were the protectors of women (well I still think that), I thought men would protect traditional minded women and stand up for us. I thought that you all would understand that the traditional woman is not against you BUT YOU DO NOT. Every single time MRAs side with feminists against traditional women.

You call us gold-diggers, you call us lazy, you say we are looking for the easy way out, you say we are wolves in sheep clothing.. you agree with the feminists about equality. You fail to protect us from feminism, from equality, from a much harder role in life and we resent you for that failure. That failure of yours will lead to broken homes and an unstable society. You will eat your cake, you will be free of slaving after ungrateful women, but you will also not have your cake when it is gone, you will have to live in the broken society that you have created, that you are content to create.

You want to know the truth about traditionalism?? It is the easy road! It is 10*times easier for me to be a stay at home mother than it is for me to be a working mom. I am lazy, I am a gold digger but that is not as shameful as you wish to make it sound. Would you lift a piano and walk ten miles with it when you can put it in a pick up truck and drive the 10 miles?? No! Then by your logic you are lazy as well. It is simply easier to have one job as opposed to two and traditional minded women see that. We acknowledge that. But we have NO support from the male community. Traditional men are silent, they do not exists they have become MRAs, they now want equality with women, they want wives that work!

So we work! We do double the work and then the feminists see that they screwed us over so they ask men to do more housework, and MRAs say sure but guess what we are not attracted to men that can not or are unwilling to take care of us. We can’t respect you, and even if you are doing half of the housework, having two jobs feels more stressful than having one job. So if you really wanted to make our lives easier you would support our right to stay at home. Yea MRAs who believe in genocentrism and who agree with “equality”, I am disappointed, I expected more from you!

On all legal issues I agree with MRAs though.. you all need more rights legally speaking. But on cultural issues you have failed women.

Signed,

Traditional Mama!

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