Slut walking made no sense to me. Women are the gate keepers of sex.

Some of the things said during the slut walking incident just made no sense. If women do not have to take responsibility for any of their actions and are able to get drunk and invite a horny also drunk male into her room expecting to say ‘NO’ at the very last second and have nothing happen… then how can we expect men to be responsible enough to listen??

Women also need to be careful and to not put themselves in dangerous positions. Preach all you want to men about respecting women, but do not forget to preach to women about respecting themselves and looking out for their own best interest. Like I said women need to woman up! We are the gate keepers of sex and we always have been and we will continue to be until men are held responsible for their children. The best analogy I can give you is this story:

You have caught a rare bird and you know that it can be sold at the market for 100,000,000 dollars. You put the bird in a cage, lock the cage and give the key to a woman. You tell her and a man to go to the market and sell the bird for you. You tell her once the bird is sold she will get 50,000,000 dollars, but the guy gets nothing. He simply goes because he likes walking to the market.

If the guy asks the woman for the key to the cage and she gives it to him and he opens the cage and lets the bird free who will you be upset with; the guy or the girl? If the women leaves the key open and available for the guy to take but tells him so not take it, but he does and he sets the bird free; who do you blame; the girl, the guy or both?

The point is really that although rape is horrible and you can not blame the victim you can warn the victim not to do irresponsible things that may lead to rape. And that is fine, the victim should be happy to receive the warning because it is in their best interest to keep the bird in the cage. Also women are the gate keepers of sex since we have the most to lose in any sexual encounter. We are the ones who get pregnant!

So why are we advertising your key? Hide your key till you find a man who you trust to share your 50,000,000 dollars with lol. I know it was a bit of a silly example and does not do the rape situation complete justice but it does show that women are the gate keepers of sex and though that may not be completely relevant in a rape situation it is relevant when explaining why women should not advertise themselves as sexual objects to men they are not interested in starting a family with.

What women need to see is that slut like behavior has only recently become acceptable because society has only recently gotten birthcontrol. And that historically we women have always been the gate keepers of sex because we have been given the key to the bird cage by nature, we have most to lose in any sexual encounter, we get pregnant, we nurse babies, we raise children, so we lose 50,000,000 by giving the key to an idiot. Yet here we are fighting to not be judged for advertising ourselves as sexual objects and calling society misogynistic. Society is not misogynistic, society just understands that you have a responsibility to seek your own interest. So if you are interested in not being raped avoid certain unsafe situations.

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